You’ll arrive at the location chosen by the couple for their elopement ceremony. We recommend arriving 10-15 minutes early to ensure everyone is on time. Don’t worry if the bride and groom are a bit late—they might decide to do a first look.
Our officiant will greet everyone and help you gather around where the couple will exchange vows, leaving the front open for photos. The couple will face each other, with guests standing to the side, and the officiant in the middle:
Our officiant will greet everyone and help you gather around where the couple will exchange vows, leaving the front open for photos. The couple will face each other, with guests standing to the side, and the officiant in the middle:
What Happens When You're a Guest at a Paris Elopement with Do It Paris Way
The couple is facing each other, the officiant is in the middle and the guests stand from both sides
Bonjour! We are Tim and Helen. You are here because you are invited to a beautiful event, a romantic wedding in Paris. Nice to meet you! Navigating the world of a destination event somewhere overseas can be a little tricky. We prepared answers to some of the biggest questions you might be asking.
It’s a special moment when family and friends join for the ceremony. To capture it best, stand comfortably with your back straight, shoulders relaxed.
The couple and officiant will be at the altar, which in Paris is often a view of the Eiffel Tower or a beautiful garden.
The couple and officiant will be at the altar, which in Paris is often a view of the Eiffel Tower or a beautiful garden.
Ceremony Etiquette
Standing with the back straight, no bags, no phones
Once the ceremony is over, we’ll celebrate with champagne and take group photos.
After the Ceremony
Pop the champagne!
Chat with the bride and groom about attire. Some couples have a color scheme, while others give full freedom. Semi-formal cocktail attire usually works well. If it’s a winter wedding (November-March), be sure to bring a jacket.
What Should I Wear?
The ceremony typically begins early in the morning, and the couple will send you a timeline 2-3 days before, based on the latest weather forecast.
When Does it All Start?
The couple will provide the ceremony location and transportation info. Uber is the fastest way to get around Paris. Please try to handle Uber arrangements on your own, especially parents—it’s best to download the app in advance. The bride and groom will have a lot on their minds, so this will save them time and stress.
How to Get to the Ceremony?
Someone from our team, often the officiant, will meet guests at a designated spot, where the Uber drops you off. From there, you’ll walk a few minutes to the ceremony location.
How Will We Meet?
A typical elopement ceremony includes:
- Opening Remarks: A warm welcome to everyone present.
- Couple’s Story: The officiant may share their love story and engagement journey.
- I Do’s: The couple exchanges vows.
- Ring Exchange: A symbolic moment of commitment.
- Declaration of Marriage: The officiant officially pronounces the couple married.
- First Kiss: Their first kiss as a married couple.
- Signing Certificates
- Champagne Toast to celebrate!
What Happens During the Ceremony?
The couple will leave for their photoshoot. You can return to your hotel to relax or book a restaurant for a meal. We highly recommend booking a River Seine cruise. Just google "River Seine cruise trip" to book online!
After the Ceremony
